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Category: Guidance Counselor Who Needs To Be Counseled

Mr. James Englerth, Pittsford Mendon High School, 472 Mendon Road, Pittsford, NY 14534


Rating: 3 out of 5.

I'm not sure if I believe you, but if that's true, his behavior is beyond strange. What kind of friggin' GUIDANCE COUNSELOR would push a kid to believe they're mentally ill? Honestly, the opposite problem, where a kid tells their gc about their anxiety disorder and is dismissed, is what I often hear. This is such a strange allegation. Either he's messed up big time, or you're twice as messed up and made up this story in attempt to tarnish his reputation. There's no middle ground.

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Mr. Englerth cares about me deeply. However, he (and a few third parti...

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Category: Guidance Counselor Who Needs To Be Counseled

Mr. Englerth


Rating: 3 out of 5.

Nah, the dude prolly got badly hurt and thought he might be able to make some quick money. Lots of ppl do it. Probably hired one of those PII's who don't charge you unless you win.

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This man is a professional victim. SUING his children's school distric...

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Category: Guidance Counselor Who Needs To Be Counseled

Mr. James Englerth, Pittsford Mendon High School, 472 Mendon Road, Pittsford, NY 14534


Rating: 1 out of 5.

I had Mr. Englerth's wife for my English class. The bluntness fits her writing style. Plus, she would refer to him by first name. Look, Mrs. Englerth or whomever you are, I do not mean to disrespect Mr. Englerth, but someone is not automatically a "dreamer" or "pothead" because they do not fully agree with how he counsels. If you are Mrs. Englerth, since you teach English, you would understand the importance of expressing oneself freely and truly.

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James is a realist. Obviously, this is a problem for dreamers and poth...

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Category: Guidance Counselor Who Needs To Be Counseled

Mr. Englerth


Rating: 1 out of 5.

Honestly, your entire situation sounds absolutely awful, so I don't want blame you for anything...but still, let this be a cautionary tale to others. "Guidance" counselor is often a misnomer for these people when it comes to anything non-academic. (And for some, like Mr. Englerth, also when it comes to academics.) They love it when you confide in them about difficult stuff because then, if you see any success, they can feel like the hero who saved you. However, rarely are they genuinely helpful. I had Mr. Englerth. The man's been in the job for over twenty years--the only useful thing he can do is tell you what kind of SAT/grades (and in some cases, extracurriculars) most colleges are looking for...which Naviance can honestly just as easily tell you. I don't think he has the best understanding of what a lot of elite colleges are looking for (for me, he couldn't explain how to boost my chances at Cornell or Brown)--which is one of the few specialized pieces of info you would expect someone in his position to have. Or maybe, he just really hated me and didn't want me to have a chance at those schools. I ended up not applying to either because he advised against it. :( And what's worse, he legitimately misadvised kids about which colleges would be a "good fit." He assumed U of R would "potentially re-ignite mental health issues" because he's heard "kids are very focused on GPA and stuff there." I completely had the grades and scores for the school--and probably the personal essay too--I now regret trusting his advice. Moreover, I don't have mental issues--I was just in a narcissistic relationship that created circumstantial stress and led me to believe *I* was "the insane one." (I'm past it now. :) ) Honestly, no disrespect to the guy, but I need to be blunt. He's in a throwaway job! (And still failing at it.) He's so much better at "guidance" on the basketball court, so honestly, he should probably just focus on that. Please don't confide any personal stuff to him unless there's absolutely no choice; as much as it seems like I'm challenging him in this review, I acknowledge he's a kind man and genuinely wants to help kids. Unfortunately, he's not the most capable at that. And in general, I don't know that most guidance counselors are much better advice givers (when it doesn't come to academics). Sure, they're probably better at helping kids get into the colleges of their choice and less...presumptive in their academic advice. I've heard Mendon has some of the best ones (other than Mr. Englerth)...and I know so many kids who have had issues with every single one of the counselors at Mendon. Moral: never confide personal stuff to a guidance counselor--unless it's really, really good stuff that could *never* be used against *anyone* and could help them write a better rec letter.

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Assuming I can't handle advanced classes or regulate my mental health ...

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Category: Guidance Counselor Who Needs To Be Counseled

Mr. James Englerth


Rating: 1 out of 5.

Uhh, you sure about that? Please read the man's X (Twitter). He openly supports LGBT+ rights. He declared the Republican Party "the party of bigotry" when all the votes against the Equality Act were Republican. He's the kind of guy who thinks drag queens and trans people AREN'T the country's problem; assault rifles are.

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Horrible, horrible man that refuses to use appropriate gender pronouns...

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Category: Guidance Counselor Who Needs To Be Counseled

Mr. James Englerth


Rating: 2 out of 5.

No cap, wants to help kids. But he's an "I don't like to make assumptions--but I still assume" type. Think he needs to realize respect entitles more than tiptoeing around presumptions using vague, don't-cancel-me language. Genuinely don't think he realizes what he's doing. I kinda hope he reads this.

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Category: Guidance Counselor Who Needs To Be Counseled

Mr. James Englerth


Rating: 1 out of 5.

Horrible, horrible man that refuses to use appropriate gender pronouns.

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Category: Guidance Counselor Who Needs To Be Counseled

Mr. James Englerth


Rating: 1 out of 5.

Days without Insanity on the Mr. Englerth Thread: 8 --> Can't believe we made it past one week!

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Category: Guidance Counselor Who Needs To Be Counseled

Mr. James Englerth


Rating: 1 out of 5.

Days without Insanity on the Mr. Englerth Thread: 7 --> Guys, I'm unbelievably proud of us for pulling through for a whole week. Keep it up this time!

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Category: Guidance Counselor Who Needs To Be Counseled

Mr. James Englerth


Rating: 1 out of 5.

Days without Insanity on the Mr. Englerth Thread: 1 --> Ppl, I have regained hope for y'all. The count has finally made its way back above 0. Please keep it that way. You can criticize Mr. Englerth; you can say you love him too. Just don't lie or be a d*ck...and don't be perverts!

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